Sunday, December 29, 2013

Why was 2013 good to you and 2014 will be even better.


We have reached that time of the year when nostalgia fills our inner feelings which is then overcome by realisations of what should've been done, could've been done or instead, what we just did. I couldn’t justify a year being good or bad based on recent events. Unfortunately that's what we've been doing before every new years' eve and then swamping these feelings by resolutions for the next year. But at the end of the day we all miss the year that passes by, which gave us moments of laughter, tears, accomplishment, anxiety, selfishness, excitement and not to forget, love.

10. Even harsh summer mornings doesn’t stop us from taking a time off to go on trips with family or friends. An excuse to be away from the busy world. Have you forgotten those silly moments on camera? Take a look at the happy you right there.

9. Academics at college or even job at a workplace must've had its ups and downs. But it has kept you busy for the year. Gave you a sense of satisfaction at the end of the day. Sit back on your chair and think about the difference you made there. Feel proud.

8. A place to call home and people to be with always. Family. How can we forget a birthday surprise by appa and a special dish made by amma? They were by your side when you considered your problems not understandable by any. And to them you never had to say I love you. They loved you anyway.

7. A high soaring success may not be scheduled for this year. But think about the one thing that you've always wanted and that one thing that you actually managed to make it yours. You've seen success in this year. The year gave you that. Boast about it.

6. A childhood friend you happened to get in touch with. The old stories you both loved talking about. The amateur acts that made you laugh. Must've made your day. It reminds you about who you were and those unforgettable moments that you crave to get back.

5. The year has been warm on so many. They've found love. A few have married to begin a new life with their soul mates. Others are in love. Be grateful to feel loved. Give others more of it. I've been told it feels good. Doesn't it?

4. So let's just leave those loved ones alone. For the others, a chicken pepperoni cheese burst pizza while watching a TV show is bliss. The crowd that spends time on a social networking site, looks up on the latest update on apps, new movie releases for the week, a football match to follow or a test series to comment on. Recall those 'I so can't wait' moments the year gave you.

3. Bet you must've got your own story for each of these bearings. A few could’ve missed a big opportunity this year, spent time working hard yet waiting for a breakthrough or been in solitude after letting go of your loved ones. If it was the year to be blamed what about the tine that healed the scars? It's not a bad year afterall. It’s just the year that came by to make you strong.

2. Think about far away strangers, near acquaintances. Doesn’t it make you excited to know how your relationship with them would be in the future? They may do the exact same thing what people this year did to you. But there's a chance for you to make it different. Act on what you've been through and feel good about being a part of this year. Miss it when it goes by. It's not going to come back and haunt you. And also, wait eagerly for the year that is waiting to give you a chance to do your life all over again. What you'll be listing next year will almost be the same as this year, but to what extent is what that will make all the difference. Step out, Have fun.


1. Happy New Year.


This new year, be happy. :)



- Swetha Ananth

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